Can’t get pregnant part 3

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I have noticed that most of my readers have been following my progress or lack of getting pregnant. Well I am still not pregnant.  It has been 4 years since we have been trying to have a baby and those 4 years have been really tough to handle, especially for me.

I have been to specialists and read articles on the subject and I am more confused now than I ever was.  Honestly – eat this, don’t eat that, stop smoking, and lose weight blah blah blah.  I really can’t take it anymore.

What is a girl to do to get the correct information about Poly cystic ovary disease?  I have never been as frustrated in my life as I am now, all the things we should do to get pregnant and other women fall pregnant just by looking at their partner.

I really feel as though all my efforts to change my habits and perhaps get healthy enough to fall pregnant have been in vain. It is just not working for me and I am just about to give up altogether.  Then deal with the fact that I will never be a mother.

Do not ask me how I will do this, but I have to try to accept it and move on.  I am sick to death of all the stress I have been under because of it, and just generally feeling awful. I just want to be happy again minus all the pressure.

You know what I am talking about, the times when people that haven’t seen you in a long time ask, so how long have you been married?  Oh, shouldn’t you have kids by now? The questions people ask you are ridiculous.  It really @#**#$ me off and very hurtful because then you feel even more like a failure because then you have to explain your situation.

So you ask how I feel now, well I don’t feel very good, my health isn’t where I want it to be, and emotionally I am devastated.  Trying very hard just to keep myself from getting depressed about it, and stop crying.  I will be ok, but I don’t know when I will be happy again.

Published by Katlyplus

My Name is Katly and I run my own plus size clothing and accessories store and also offer sewing classes and hemming service.

10 thoughts on “Can’t get pregnant part 3

  1. It’s hard I bet, but this is how i see it, if you really want something it’ll come, you just have to believe in it. Honestly Kat, I don’t think your believing in it that much to be able to want it that bad, don’t worry it’ll come :)!

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  2. Kat – I have PCOD, am obese and could not get pregnant. My endocrinologist put me on Glucophage (normally used to treat diabetes) and I was pregnant within three months. Unfortunately, we lost our baby at 5 months along due to a clotting condition that had nothing to do with my weight or my PCOD. However, ask your primary care physician about a prescription for Glucophage and see what happens!
    DW

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  3. Hi DW
    thanks for your comments, I have emailed you a more detailed note. I hope you come and visit BGDC again soon, until then all the best in your desire to have children.

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  4. Try Kate Stern. She works Melbourne IVF and specialises in treatment for larger ladies. Doesn’t mean you have to do IVF, she can recommend other options to help improve your fertility options. They also have a good support network that helps you keep on track.

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  5. Hi Paula, thanks for the information. I will look into that. Also, thank you for the support. This has been the hardest thing I have had to face in my life.

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  7. Hi Jon, thanks for the information, I am sure myself and my vast array of readers will find this very interesting and hopefully all get pregnant. THanks for stopping by.

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  8. To Kat my first comment, please do not write negative things like that on this site, it really hurt my feelings and more to the point you really don’t know what you are talking about, many women all over the world struggle with infirtility but do not need comments like yours. Your not helping.

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    1. Hi Tina, I know how you feel – I pray your little miracle comes soon, still no luck for me but I am still hoping and trying. The best of luck for you and your partner. My thoughts are with you. Hope to see you here again soon. Thank you – Kat

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